When to speak and When to keep silent
Amazwi ethu avame ukusifaka enkingeni. Njengalokhu uJakobe 3:8 esho, ububi obungaphumuli. Kodwa, ukuvele uthule akusiyona impendulo nakho. Futhi, incwadi yeZaga iyasisiza ukuthi sigcine ubungcwele, ukukhula kanye nokuhlakanipha okukahle kakhulu.
KwiZaga26:4-5, kunikezelwe izinkulumo ezimbili ezihambelanayo ekuphenduleni omunye.
4 Ungasiphenduli isiwula njengobuwula baso, funa ufane naso.
5 Phendula isiwula njengobuwula baso, funa sibe ngohlakaniphileyo emehlweni aso.
IZaga26:4-5
Uma omunye ephimisa lokho okungubuwula, okulimazayo, okungesilo iqiniso, noma okungenasidingo, umele ucabange ukuthi uzomphendula kanjani. Ungakhuluma iqiniso ngothando (Efesu 4:15) bese uba wusizo olukhulu lokumakha lowo omunye, noma uzovele ushone phansi kwisimo senkulumo elimazayo nenganambithisiseki uphendula kulowo omunye.
Khumbula lezizaga ezimbili- zinikezelwe ngokuhambisana eZwini likaNkulunkulu. Uma ubona ukuthi impendulo yakho izokwenza ungabi nobunkulunkulu, ube yisiwula, futhi ikhombise ukungakhuli njengale yalowo omunye, laphoke veke uzibambe ungakhulumi. Linda isikhathi esingcono. Kodwa uma ubona ukuthi kungenzela kube yisikhathi esikahle, futhi kungenzeka ube umuntu okahle ukukhuluma lolodaba nomngani wakho, laphoke phendula masinyane ukuze lowo omunye ezosizakala.
Hlola kwincwadi yeZaga amagama afana no “inkulumo”, “ulimi”, “amazwi” kanye “izindebe”. Waqoqele ndawonye ngomqondo ofanayo. Zibekelele wena izinkulumo ezinobuhlakani zokusho izinto ngendlela enobuhlakani.