Top Priorities for Every Woman, Wife, and Mother
Impilo kulo mhlaba ayilula. Nakuba kuyiqiniso elikhulu nelicacile ukuthi impilo yomKhrestu kulo mhlaba iba lula kakhulu ngenxa yokwazi iqiniso nokungabi yisigqila sesono, ayihlezi izwakala ilula. Eqinisweni, kwesinye isikhathi kuba sengathi ukuba ngumKhrestu kulo mhlaba kunzima kakhulu kunezimpilo zabangakholwayo ezibonakala ziphelele ku-Instagram naku-Netflix.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso kakhulu kwabesifazane, amakhosikazi, nomama. Abesifazane abanomqondo wobuzwe babukeka bephumelela kakhulu njengoba besebenzisa umshado wabo ukuzuza kwabo futhi benza ukukhulisa izingane kube lula engadingi ukufaka umfutho. Kodwa yini imfihlo yenjabulo nempumelelo yangempela kowesifazane ongumKhrestu, ikakhulukazi kulabo abashadile abanabantwana?
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Singafingqa izinto eziningi imiBhalo eziyishoyo ngabesifazane, futhi kwabesifazane, kulezi zinto eziyisihlanu ezibalulekile kowesifazane ongumKhrestu. Gcina lezi zinto ezinhlanu, ngokulandelana kwazo! Zivikela wonke owesifazane ongumKhrestu ezintweni ezibonakala zibalulekile emhlabeni, futhi ziyasiza ekulawuleni ingqondo yakhe ngendlela esebenzayo lapho impilo iqala ukuphuma esandleni ngendlela eyodwa noma eziningi.
Izinto eziyisihlanu ezibaluleke kakhulu kowesifazane ongumKhrestu, onguNkosikazi, nonguMama:
Okokuqala, yiba owesifazane ongcwele kunabo bonke. Ayikho into okufanele wone ngenxa yayo—ngaso sonke isikhathi! Uma kudingeka wenze isono (ukuthukuthela, ukuhleba, ukuba nomqondo wezwe, njll.) ukuze uthole okuthile, noma uma wenza isono (ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, ubuhlungu benhliziyo, njll.) lapho ungakutholi okuthile, kusho ukuthi akukufanele. Buza kuzo zonke izimo uthi, “Iyiphi indlela ehlonipha uNkulunkulu okufanele ngiyithathe?” ngaphambi kokwenza noma yini enye. Yaziwe ngokubeka ukholo nobungcwele kuqala kunakho konke. (IZaga 31:30)
Okwesibili, yenza umyeni wakho abe indoda ejabule kunawo wonke emhlabeni. Kukona konke ukuphithizela kwempilo, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka phambili izenzo ezicacile zothando nobungane ozibhekise kumyeni wakho, umkhuthaza. (IZaga 31:11-12; IZaga 31:23; Thithu 2:4; Efesu 5:33)
Okwesithathu, yenza izingane zakho zizizwe zithandwa kakhulu emhlabeni. Ukunakekela izingane nsuku zonke kubalulekile futhi kungenye yezindlela eziningi zokubonisa uthando lukamama kubantwana, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi uzithanda ngezindlela zangempela zikamama—ukunakekela, uthando, nangokobudlelwano futhi!. (IZaga 31:15; IZaga 31:21; Thithu 2:4)
Okwesine, yenza okuhle okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka kwabanye. Ikakhulukazi amanye amakholwa, kodwa nakulabo abangakholwa futhi, kumele mabazi ukuthi uyabakhathalela futhi ukhombise lokho ngezenzo ezicacile zokulunga. (IZaga 31:20; 1 Thimothewu 5:10)
Okwesihlanu, velela kunoma yini enye oyenzayo. Uma, ngemva kwalezi zinto ezibalulekile, kusasele izinsiza (isikhathi, imali, ezokuhamba, ubuciko, amandla, njll.), zisebenzise zonke ngenhloso yokudumisa uNkulunkulu. (IZaga 31:16; IZaga 31:22; IZaga 31:31; 1 Korinte 10:31)
Gcina lezi zinto ngokulandelana kwazo, ubeke phambili lokho okukhulu kunalokho okuncane lapho kunesidingo, ngaleyondlela iNkosi izobusisa umsebenzi wezandla zakho.