By Peace: Fake it, Break it, or Make it UKend Sande, kwincwadi yakhe iPeacemaker (umenzi wokuthula), uthatha konke ukuphendula kwethu okuhluka hlukene uma sibhekene nezingxabano ukwenza amaqoqo ngaphansi kwezihloko ezithi ukwenza engathi kukhona ukuthula, ukuqeda ukuthula, nokwenza ukuthula. Lamaqoqo awusizo ngezindlela eziningi ukukwazi ukucubungula ukuthi wena iyiphi indima oyidlalile ekwenzeni ukuthi
By Peace: Fake it, Break it, or Make It
Ken Sande, in his book The Peacemaker, groups all our different responses to conflict into the categories of peace-faking, peace-breaking, and peace-making. These are helpful ways to analyse your own contributions to the lack of peace in your relationships. Faking peace includes responses like acting as though everything is fine, blaming others