Soft words; Harsh words; which words works best?

Impendulo ethambile iyaludambisa ulaka,
kodwa izwi elilimazayo libhebhezela intukuthelo.

Izaga 15:1

Kwaze kwabayivesi esilidingayo kulomhlaba! Eqinisweni, ukube umhlaba ungalenza kahle lelivesi leBhayibheli, umhlaba wethu ungacishe ulunge ngokuphelele! Isahluko 3 sencwadi ekaJakobe iqinisekisa ukuthi uma singakwazi ukulawula amazwi, singakwazi ukulawula nezinye izinto futhi.

Amazwi azothile ngamazwi akhulunywa ngokulungiselela okucoshelelwe, ngenhloso yokwenza umongo wawo ube muhle kulowo olalele (Izaga 15:2a). Amazwi akanje, yize ekhulunywe ngobumnene nenhlonipha, anamandla okushintsha umqondo ngisho nakulabo abenampakamo abazaziyo (Izaga 25:15).

Kodwa amazwi alimazyo avusa ulaka. Amazwi alimazayo akusiwo amazwi alungiswe ngokuqaphelisisa, anjengamagagasi olwandle agubhayo obuwula (Izaga 15:2b. Amazwi akanjalo, yize ngokujwayelekile ekhulunywa ngokungacabangisisi, angamazwi anobuhlungu obugwazayo kulimaze labo ekumele bawezwe (Izaga 12:18).

Izaga 15:1 ahleleke njenganomlolozelo okuwenza kubelula ukuwagcina emqondweni. Isaga esikanje emqondweni wakho lizowaguqula amazwi olimi lwakho.